When Love Finds You

What do you do?

You meet a great guy who is everything you've ever wanted in life. Smart, kind, respectful, and handsome. Yet you can't seem to get over your past and accept what has come in to your future.........

I've been hurt in the past before by a guy who I thought I was in love with. I was used, abused, and disrespected beyond belief. And as a result, I began to view all guys the same way- disrespectful dogs. So when I found my significant other I viewed him like my past. I wouldn't give him the time of day. I liked him yes but I had this mindset that I was never going to get close to another guy again. I put my guard up. Did and said things so that he wouldn't get close to me that way- I wouldn't get close to him.

But then I realized: he genuinely cared.

He genuinely cared so much that he tried his hardest to prove to me that he wasn't like the rest. That he was different and wanted to show me that I was the one for him.

Ladies, if a man truly cares about you and sees that you have a guard up because you've been hurt in the past, he will do everything in his power to show you that he's not going to hurt you- that he wants to be there for you and with you. Actions speak louder than words so listening to a guy tell you "I'm not like those other guys" is bullshit. Let him prove to you that he's "not like those other guys" through his actions. Let him show you that you are the one he wants to be with. And let him give you his heart.

Its hard to tell. So many are so deceiving but you'll know. You'll know by his actions. If a guy is doing something that is leery, let that action speak for the type of guy he is.......